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How to stop feeling guilty for leaving your faith
Whether you’ve been a person of faith all your life, or for only a number of years, it’s valuable to reflect on how much faith becomes a part of who you are. If you’ve reached a point where you are leaving behind your faith; you no longer believe, you’ve left your church, mosque or other religious setting - you’ve made a decision – ‘I can’t go back there’. Perhaps this journey has been a long one, months or years of doubting, deconstructing your faith, questioning why things
David Cervera
Mar 234 min read


What is Faith Deconstruction and why does it feel like grief?
Where it all begins. I guess everyone experiences faith deconstruction in different ways - perhaps each person's experience is unique, but they all contain (in one way or another) similar facets. If you are fortunate to know anyone who has questioned their faith - then maybe you've connected over the same questions and doubts, found a connection in the loneliness and a relief when you realise theres' something so deeply painful about the whole foundation your world has been
David Cervera
Feb 234 min read


Am I Crazy? Navigating the "Sunday Scaries" of Faith Deconstruction
Doubt, Faith Deconstruction and Leaving the Church Behind One of the most painful experiences for someone who has grown up in religion is the journey from questioning, doubting, and deconstructing to finally leaving a church community. The loneliness this creates can be immense . Often, we don’t have anyone to talk to about this. Friends and family may not be on the same road as us. If they found out, they might not understand (at best) or could disown us entirely. The Journe
David Cervera
Feb 103 min read


Why We Keep Repeating the Same Relationship Patterns
Why do we keep repeating the same relationship patterns, even when we desperately want things to be different?
David Cervera
Oct 22, 20252 min read


The Benefits of Online Therapy
The Benefits of Online Counselling: Accessible Therapy from Home More people are choosing online therapy in the UK. Why? It's convenient, confidential, flexible, and accessible. You can fit it around your life without the added time it takes to travel to and from a session. Imagine squeezing in a session during your lunch break or adding it to your weekday schedule from wherever you are. Plus, it opens the door to many excellent professional therapists who may not be local bu
David Cervera
Aug 26, 20254 min read


What to Do When You Feel Stuck
A cat stuck in a bird feed! Feeling stuck in life can be absolutely debilitating. We don't know where to turn to next. More-so, being in...
David Cervera
Jul 22, 20253 min read


What is Therapy Actually Like?
If you've never been in therapy before, the whole idea of sitting with someone you don't know, opening up and sharing some of your deepest thoughts and feelings can be utterly terrifying.
David Cervera
Jun 16, 20253 min read
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